Married Many Years But Has Not Given Offspring?

As a husband and wife who have been legally married of course expecting the birth of the child from the womb of the wife. However, some pairs of husband and wife despite years of trying apparently God has not give a child as a successor descendants can be proud. If this happens to you then please be patient, because God will always be with those who are patient and pray to Him. An example is the Prophet Abraham who had a child when he was already old.

Every married couple can conceive naturally, about 90% of which is dominated and determined by three related factors, namely ovum cell factor, anatomy of uterus, as well as sperm factor. If all three of these factors in the normal range, but still can not get pregnant, mother recommended a balanced diet (adequate protein and fruits, exercise once a week, about 1-2 hours), keep a healthy weight, and having sex about 2 - 3 times a week.

Do not despair if you so many years of married but have not been pregnant. Consult your obstetrician about your condition and your husband. You may also try some unique tips to get pregnant. But basically, to get pregnant, it takes a good lifestyle, and reduce the use of drugs that are less supportive of your pregnancy.

Surrounding Environments Influence The Development Of Children

As social beings each individual must interact with other individuals, including children also need to know and be aware of the existence of the circumstances surrounding friends in the neighborhood he lived. Through interaction with friends in this environment was a child learn to society, learn the temperament addressing other children who are very diverse. When hanging out with other kids around sometimes a child suddenly cried because maybe fighting over a toy robot or swing or for other trivial things. But it will all be memorable for him that not everyone is going to do to her liking, do anything to please him.

Like two sides of a coin, the association of children with the surrounding community will have a positive impact or a negative impact. Like the example above, a child can learn about self-control is a positive thing, but at other times may be met or will see adults behaving badly and could be an alternative behavior that wants tried, such as liquor or intoxicated due to consumption drugs. That's why a child still need the guidance of the family as the core of the smallest communities so that deviant behavior can be reduced or even avoided.
Good and positive interaction among a family with another family in the neighborhood will be a positive influence for the kids anyway. They will understand that they need each other, and with the positive interaction will also build an understanding that collaboration will result in a positive expected goals. That's why there needs to be an initiative of every family to help each other family, in terms of goodness.
One thing that is important from the above explanation is, that the first is supposed to do is form a harmonious family first, of harmonious families this was a harmonious society will be formed as well. Here is a prayer that the family be 'sakinah'. Sampled prayer of the holy verses of the Qur'an, which is one of the Prophet's prayer.

  رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
read:
Robbana hablanaa min azwajinaa wadzurriyatinaa qurrota a'yunin waj'alnaa lilmuttaqiina imaamaa.

meaning:
"Our Lord, Grant unto us our wives and our offspring as happy maker of our heart, and make us priests for those who fear Allah."
(Surat al-Furqan: 74) 

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My House Is My Palace

As a new family of course raises many new things as well that must be faced by a husband and wife. One of them is home to shelter, to rest after a day of activities reaching sustenance, for romance and so on. Comfortable home and working properly that is desired by a family, because it starts from a house will also form the smallest unit of society is called knit family.

Magnificent house with full amenities makes no guarantee of families who live in them can live comfortably. There are many examples of events despite a broken family owns and lives in a luxurious house. Awareness of each member of the family that can keep the family unit. Awareness that they must unite complementary to achieve a common goal, a happy family, full of love, and blessed by God. 

There is no harm if a family has a beautiful home, with an ornamental garden in the backyard, pond containing colourfull koi fish, and highlighted the garden lights at night. But it would be wonderful if in it there is a married couple who get along and love each other, and maybe plus some healthy and intelligent child and dutiful to parents. Oh, like a family in heaven.

Honey moon...

Some goals of marriage is to get peace of mind in between the pair, as well as to get a coveted descent. Yes, the two things mentioned above was actually interrelated and can affect each other. With sobriety during marital intercourse is more likely to get the coveted children, contrary to the presence of a healthy and intelligent children will be able to cause the desired sobriety.

Most people do tours honeymoon at the beginning of the marriage, for example to Bali or to Hawaii, of course, the cost is not cheap. It is okay to do as long as it has sufficient savings to make the trip. If not possible, can actually do alternative honeymoon tour to domestic locations close just to keep costs down.

But it is more important do prayer to God than just go for honeymoon.

This prayer is read before intercourse:

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا

(Bismillaahi Alloohumma jannibnasy syaithoona wajannibisy syaithoona maa rozaqtanaa)
Translate: With the Name of Allah, O Allah! Keep us from the devil, and the devil away so as not to interfere with what (the child) that you give to us

How to get a good quality offspring

A normal human desire to have children. Surely a good offspring can be obtained by a good start it anyway. Marriage is the starting point of the process of getting the good offspring, as with marriage that's the responsibility of the family to function properly. Through a legal marriage before having intercourse will make offspring derived lineage has clarity and good quality too. In addition to the future will make it easier in terms of the division of the estate.

In this world there is a lot to legalize marriage procession, in a way that traditional or modern for every different religion. Also there are a lot procession to celebrate the wedding, in a way that traditional or modern. But the more important thing is to maintain the integrity of the marriage, because in the future there must be a lot of obstacles and hurdles in taking the family ark. With effort alone is not enough, it would be nice after marriage pray for God's help for strength in the marriage. Here is a good pray:

"May Allah gather the dispersed of both, bless them both, improving the quality of the offspring as a door opener for grace, source of knowledge and wisdom as well as the security provider for the people."

(Prayer of the Prophet Muhammad, the marriage of his daughter Fatimah Az Zahra to Ali ibn Abi Talib).

One thing that should not be left out is, provide quality nutrition to children and also give a good moral education to children. May God give the next generation a good for us all, for the sake of the life in a better world anyway. 

In the name of God

Bismillah...
Let's start in the name of God.
Fill our soul with the light from God.
Let our mind to think about God.
Let's start our activities in the name of God.