As social beings each individual must interact with other individuals, including children also need to know and be aware of the existence of the circumstances surrounding friends in the neighborhood he lived. Through interaction with friends in this environment was a child learn to society, learn the temperament addressing other children who are very diverse. When hanging out with other kids around sometimes a child suddenly cried because maybe fighting over a toy robot or swing or for other trivial things. But it will all be memorable for him that not everyone is going to do to her liking, do anything to please him.
Like two sides of a coin, the association of children with the surrounding community will have a positive impact or a negative impact. Like the example above, a child can learn about self-control is a positive thing, but at other times may be met or will see adults behaving badly and could be an alternative behavior that wants tried, such as liquor or intoxicated due to consumption drugs. That's why a child still need the guidance of the family as the core of the smallest communities so that deviant behavior can be reduced or even avoided.
Good and positive interaction among a family with another family in the neighborhood will be a positive influence for the kids anyway. They will understand that they need each other, and with the positive interaction will also build an understanding that collaboration will result in a positive expected goals. That's why there needs to be an initiative of every family to help each other family, in terms of goodness.
One thing that is important from the above explanation is, that the first is supposed to do is form a harmonious family first, of harmonious families this was a harmonious society will be formed as well. Here is a prayer that the family be 'sakinah'. Sampled prayer of the holy verses of the Qur'an, which is one of the Prophet's prayer.
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
read:
Robbana hablanaa min azwajinaa wadzurriyatinaa qurrota a'yunin waj'alnaa lilmuttaqiina imaamaa.
meaning:
"Our Lord, Grant unto us our wives and our offspring as happy maker of our heart, and make us priests for those who fear Allah."
(Surat al-Furqan: 74)
Like two sides of a coin, the association of children with the surrounding community will have a positive impact or a negative impact. Like the example above, a child can learn about self-control is a positive thing, but at other times may be met or will see adults behaving badly and could be an alternative behavior that wants tried, such as liquor or intoxicated due to consumption drugs. That's why a child still need the guidance of the family as the core of the smallest communities so that deviant behavior can be reduced or even avoided.
Good and positive interaction among a family with another family in the neighborhood will be a positive influence for the kids anyway. They will understand that they need each other, and with the positive interaction will also build an understanding that collaboration will result in a positive expected goals. That's why there needs to be an initiative of every family to help each other family, in terms of goodness.
One thing that is important from the above explanation is, that the first is supposed to do is form a harmonious family first, of harmonious families this was a harmonious society will be formed as well. Here is a prayer that the family be 'sakinah'. Sampled prayer of the holy verses of the Qur'an, which is one of the Prophet's prayer.
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
read:
Robbana hablanaa min azwajinaa wadzurriyatinaa qurrota a'yunin waj'alnaa lilmuttaqiina imaamaa.
meaning:
"Our Lord, Grant unto us our wives and our offspring as happy maker of our heart, and make us priests for those who fear Allah."
(Surat al-Furqan: 74)
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