Married Many Years But Has Not Given Offspring?

As a husband and wife who have been legally married of course expecting the birth of the child from the womb of the wife. However, some pairs of husband and wife despite years of trying apparently God has not give a child as a successor descendants can be proud. If this happens to you then please be patient, because God will always be with those who are patient and pray to Him. An example is the Prophet Abraham who had a child when he was already old.

Every married couple can conceive naturally, about 90% of which is dominated and determined by three related factors, namely ovum cell factor, anatomy of uterus, as well as sperm factor. If all three of these factors in the normal range, but still can not get pregnant, mother recommended a balanced diet (adequate protein and fruits, exercise once a week, about 1-2 hours), keep a healthy weight, and having sex about 2 - 3 times a week.

Do not despair if you so many years of married but have not been pregnant. Consult your obstetrician about your condition and your husband. You may also try some unique tips to get pregnant. But basically, to get pregnant, it takes a good lifestyle, and reduce the use of drugs that are less supportive of your pregnancy.

Honey moon...

Some goals of marriage is to get peace of mind in between the pair, as well as to get a coveted descent. Yes, the two things mentioned above was actually interrelated and can affect each other. With sobriety during marital intercourse is more likely to get the coveted children, contrary to the presence of a healthy and intelligent children will be able to cause the desired sobriety.

Most people do tours honeymoon at the beginning of the marriage, for example to Bali or to Hawaii, of course, the cost is not cheap. It is okay to do as long as it has sufficient savings to make the trip. If not possible, can actually do alternative honeymoon tour to domestic locations close just to keep costs down.

But it is more important do prayer to God than just go for honeymoon.

This prayer is read before intercourse:

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا

(Bismillaahi Alloohumma jannibnasy syaithoona wajannibisy syaithoona maa rozaqtanaa)
Translate: With the Name of Allah, O Allah! Keep us from the devil, and the devil away so as not to interfere with what (the child) that you give to us

How to get a good quality offspring

A normal human desire to have children. Surely a good offspring can be obtained by a good start it anyway. Marriage is the starting point of the process of getting the good offspring, as with marriage that's the responsibility of the family to function properly. Through a legal marriage before having intercourse will make offspring derived lineage has clarity and good quality too. In addition to the future will make it easier in terms of the division of the estate.

In this world there is a lot to legalize marriage procession, in a way that traditional or modern for every different religion. Also there are a lot procession to celebrate the wedding, in a way that traditional or modern. But the more important thing is to maintain the integrity of the marriage, because in the future there must be a lot of obstacles and hurdles in taking the family ark. With effort alone is not enough, it would be nice after marriage pray for God's help for strength in the marriage. Here is a good pray:

"May Allah gather the dispersed of both, bless them both, improving the quality of the offspring as a door opener for grace, source of knowledge and wisdom as well as the security provider for the people."

(Prayer of the Prophet Muhammad, the marriage of his daughter Fatimah Az Zahra to Ali ibn Abi Talib).

One thing that should not be left out is, provide quality nutrition to children and also give a good moral education to children. May God give the next generation a good for us all, for the sake of the life in a better world anyway.