Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Monday, December 14, 2015

How to feel comfortable talking with your doctors and nurses.

Ask questions. If you don’t understand what your doctors or nurses say, ask them to explain. Always
ask about any medicines or tests they say you need. If you don’t ask, they may think you have all the
information you want.
Let your doctors and nurses know if you need more time to ask questions about your health. If the doctor doesn’t have time that day, you may be able to talk to another doctor or nurse, schedule another appointment, or find out when you can call later to speak to someone.
Some doctors and health plans have call-in lines. If you call, you can speak to an advice nurse.
Tell your health history. Tell your doctors and nurses about your health history. For example, tell them about any major diseases or operations you have had. Be sure to mention family history of diseasesand conditions. For example, if high blood pressure runs in your family, let your doctor know.
Tell your health now. Only you know how you feel and whether you feel differently than you did before. Tell your doctors and nurses. Also tell them what medicines you take. Don’t hesitate to report personal information. Feel free to talk about yourbeliefs and concerns. You don’t need to wait to be asked.
Be sure to tell your doctors and nurses if you have any allergies or reactions to medicines.

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Married Many Years But Has Not Given Offspring?

As a husband and wife who have been legally married of course expecting the birth of the child from the womb of the wife. However, some pairs of husband and wife despite years of trying apparently God has not give a child as a successor descendants can be proud. If this happens to you then please be patient, because God will always be with those who are patient and pray to Him. An example is the Prophet Abraham who had a child when he was already old.

Every married couple can conceive naturally, about 90% of which is dominated and determined by three related factors, namely ovum cell factor, anatomy of uterus, as well as sperm factor. If all three of these factors in the normal range, but still can not get pregnant, mother recommended a balanced diet (adequate protein and fruits, exercise once a week, about 1-2 hours), keep a healthy weight, and having sex about 2 - 3 times a week.

Do not despair if you so many years of married but have not been pregnant. Consult your obstetrician about your condition and your husband. You may also try some unique tips to get pregnant. But basically, to get pregnant, it takes a good lifestyle, and reduce the use of drugs that are less supportive of your pregnancy.

Monday, July 29, 2013

Surrounding Environments Influence The Development Of Children

As social beings each individual must interact with other individuals, including children also need to know and be aware of the existence of the circumstances surrounding friends in the neighborhood he lived. Through interaction with friends in this environment was a child learn to society, learn the temperament addressing other children who are very diverse. When hanging out with other kids around sometimes a child suddenly cried because maybe fighting over a toy robot or swing or for other trivial things. But it will all be memorable for him that not everyone is going to do to her liking, do anything to please him.

Like two sides of a coin, the association of children with the surrounding community will have a positive impact or a negative impact. Like the example above, a child can learn about self-control is a positive thing, but at other times may be met or will see adults behaving badly and could be an alternative behavior that wants tried, such as liquor or intoxicated due to consumption drugs. That's why a child still need the guidance of the family as the core of the smallest communities so that deviant behavior can be reduced or even avoided.
Good and positive interaction among a family with another family in the neighborhood will be a positive influence for the kids anyway. They will understand that they need each other, and with the positive interaction will also build an understanding that collaboration will result in a positive expected goals. That's why there needs to be an initiative of every family to help each other family, in terms of goodness.
One thing that is important from the above explanation is, that the first is supposed to do is form a harmonious family first, of harmonious families this was a harmonious society will be formed as well. Here is a prayer that the family be 'sakinah'. Sampled prayer of the holy verses of the Qur'an, which is one of the Prophet's prayer.

  رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
read:
Robbana hablanaa min azwajinaa wadzurriyatinaa qurrota a'yunin waj'alnaa lilmuttaqiina imaamaa.

meaning:
"Our Lord, Grant unto us our wives and our offspring as happy maker of our heart, and make us priests for those who fear Allah."
(Surat al-Furqan: 74)
 

Saturday, July 27, 2013

My House Is My Palace

As a new family of course raises many new things as well that must be faced by a husband and wife. One of them is home to shelter, to rest after a day of activities reaching sustenance, for romance and so on. Comfortable home and working properly that is desired by a family, because it starts from a house will also form the smallest unit of society is called knit family.
Magnificent house with full amenities makes no guarantee of families who live in them can live comfortably. There are many examples of events despite a broken family owns and lives in a luxurious house. Awareness of each member of the family that can keep the family unit. Awareness that they must unite complementary to achieve a common goal, a happy family, full of love, and blessed by God. 
There is no harm if a family has a beautiful home, with an ornamental garden in the backyard, pond containing colourfull koi fish, and highlighted the garden lights at night. But it would be wonderful if in it there is a married couple who get along and love each other, and maybe plus some healthy and intelligent child and dutiful to parents. Oh, like a family in heaven.