Showing posts with label kid. Show all posts
Showing posts with label kid. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Guiding Our Children To Be Creative


Without realizing it we often create an environment that makes the children are not creative. For example, more children watch TV or play computer games. Try to occasionally let the kids play on their own without a television or other game gadgets. If left alone, the children are often very creative and often more creative than we are.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FlouFPELHR0 
It is true that children need the knowledge and skills, but they also need to learn how to think creatively, which is to create new ideas from scratch. Creativity is an essential life skill. If the teachers in the school lacks in teaching children creativity, you can actually do it at home. So turn off the TV, turn off the computer games and invite your child to play a game that requires creativity. If you do not have your own ideas, you can find ideas from books, from the library or the internet to get ideas for your child to be able to perform activities that require creativity.
Try to do some of these activities:
  1. You can invite children to do activities outside the home. Encourage them to go outside and play.
  2. Try to make a craft. Put paper, scraps, glue, knick-knacks, markers, crayons, rubber bands, paper clips, buttons, thread, and other things that you can find on the table. Encourage your children to make something as simple as a butterfly or toy cars.
  3. Making things out of wood. Children love making things out of wood. Help them make a bird house. Use a draft of a book or from the internet. Make a small box with a roof, holes, and stick to perch and hang it on the tree and now the kids can watch the birds happy.
  4. Experiment with science. Find directions from the internet or a book how to make bell or electric motors of trash such as cans, wire, screws. Then create a race and they might be surprised to see who wins. If they could figure out why they lost and where lies the problem, one day they will learn it in a physics lesson.
There are many other creative activities that you can explore yourself.

Monday, July 29, 2013

Surrounding Environments Influence The Development Of Children

As social beings each individual must interact with other individuals, including children also need to know and be aware of the existence of the circumstances surrounding friends in the neighborhood he lived. Through interaction with friends in this environment was a child learn to society, learn the temperament addressing other children who are very diverse. When hanging out with other kids around sometimes a child suddenly cried because maybe fighting over a toy robot or swing or for other trivial things. But it will all be memorable for him that not everyone is going to do to her liking, do anything to please him.

Like two sides of a coin, the association of children with the surrounding community will have a positive impact or a negative impact. Like the example above, a child can learn about self-control is a positive thing, but at other times may be met or will see adults behaving badly and could be an alternative behavior that wants tried, such as liquor or intoxicated due to consumption drugs. That's why a child still need the guidance of the family as the core of the smallest communities so that deviant behavior can be reduced or even avoided.
Good and positive interaction among a family with another family in the neighborhood will be a positive influence for the kids anyway. They will understand that they need each other, and with the positive interaction will also build an understanding that collaboration will result in a positive expected goals. That's why there needs to be an initiative of every family to help each other family, in terms of goodness.
One thing that is important from the above explanation is, that the first is supposed to do is form a harmonious family first, of harmonious families this was a harmonious society will be formed as well. Here is a prayer that the family be 'sakinah'. Sampled prayer of the holy verses of the Qur'an, which is one of the Prophet's prayer.

  رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
read:
Robbana hablanaa min azwajinaa wadzurriyatinaa qurrota a'yunin waj'alnaa lilmuttaqiina imaamaa.

meaning:
"Our Lord, Grant unto us our wives and our offspring as happy maker of our heart, and make us priests for those who fear Allah."
(Surat al-Furqan: 74)